资料：Think for a moment of your definition of persuasion. If you are like most business people I have encountered, you see persuasion as a relatively staightforward process. First, you strongly state your position. Second,you outline the supporting arguments, followed by a highly assertive, databased exposition. Finally, you enter the deal-making stage and work toward a “close.” In other words, you use logic, persistence, and personal enthusiasm to get others to buy a good idea. The reality is that following this process is one surefire way to fail at persuasion. Persuasion,in fact,involves demands-compromise. Perhaps that is why the most effective persuaders seem to share a common trait: they are open-minded, never dogmtaic. They enter the persuasion process prepared to adjust their viewpoints and incorporate others’ ideas. When colleagues see that a persuader is eager to hear their views and willing to make changes in response to their needs and concerns, they respond very positively. What is the main difference between the “persuasion” of most businesspeople and that of the effective persuaded?

资料：Think for a moment of your definition of persuasion. If you are like most business people I have encountered, you see persuasion as a relatively staightforward process. First, you strongly state your position. Second,you outline the supporting arguments, followed by a highly assertive, databased exposition. Finally, you enter the deal-making stage and work toward a “close.” In other words, you use logic, persistence, and personal enthusiasm to get others to buy a good idea. The reality is that following this process is one surefire way to fail at persuasion.
Persuasion,in fact,involves demands-compromise. Perhaps that is why the most effective persuaders seem to share a common trait: they are open-minded, never dogmtaic. They enter the persuasion process prepared to adjust their viewpoints and incorporate others’ ideas. When colleagues see that a persuader is eager to hear their views and willing to make changes in response to their needs and concerns, they respond very positively.
What is the main difference between the “persuasion” of most businesspeople and that of the effective persuaded?